Living overseas and experiencing the local culture
means so many different things to different people. One person's
definition of quaint may be another's definition of archaic. Either
way, the better an individual understands the local culture of the
country in which he or she will be living, the more enjoyable their
time there will be. Knowledge of local norms will help you avoid
embarrassing situations, like inadvertently offending someone. So,
before going, learn as much as you can about the country's culture
from a good guidebook or the internet. To get you started, here
are a few aspects of life in another country you should be sure
to research further.
Avoid embarrassing yourself and find out in advance whether you
are expected to bring a gift when you visit someone's house or whether
you're supposed to take your shoes off before you enter, as is common
all across Europe, Russia, and Asia. If you are expected to bring
a gift, you should learn what is acceptable or what is not. In many
countries it is not acceptable to bring a bottle of wine for the
host, as it implies you don't think you'll be satisfied with their
choice of drink.
If you plan on driving in your new city, be sure to learn about
the driving habits and laws, and whether a law is actually a law
or whether it is just a suggestion on the road. In some countries
you may notice 5 lanes of traffic routinely squeezed into 3 lanes,
or the car behind you flashing their lights (they aren't warning
of a cop, they're telling you you're going too slow and you need
to get out of their way). Knowing beforehand what will happen behind
the wheel will help you avoid an accident.
A healthy appreciation of food is a commonality the world over.
Learn about what you should and should not eat or drink in your
new country. For example, Western stomachs can't stomach the water
in many underdeveloped countries. Also important to a positive culinary
experience is knowledge of the manners and norms about food and
eating. Is it polite to ask for seconds? In a culture where "no,
thank you" really means "yes", how do you politely decline something?
When eating at a restaurant, how do you ask for the check?
Women in some countries may dress more conservatively than you may
be used to and in some countries less so. Be aware of the differences
and plan accordingly. In some cultures neither men nor women wear
shorts, in others women can wear whatever they like as long as they
cover their heads in church. Such rules about dress can also vary
within the country: what may be OK in the big, bustling capital
city would be cause for alarm in a smaller, rural village.
As a teacher overseas, you don't need to know the local language
to do your job, but a basic knowledge of few key phrases will go
a long way in helping you settle comfortably into your new life.
Once again, a good guidebook and the many resources on the internet
will go far in acquainting you with important words and phrases.